Recreating LOVE

It is important to feel loved to be happy. You cannot be in a situation where you feel love cannot exist as it is a negative vibration. Even after you separate from a person by who you feel ditched, you need to again recreate the feeling that you are loved as a soul to be happy. By choosing not to love, we devolve, as souls because we deny the high positive frequency of being close to ONENESS, which being in love creates in us. In God’s eyes, you are always special and whole. Even if you feel ditched or rejected by negatively oriented people, you have to revive your soul. As parts of God, we are souls of positive frequency. To remain positive, we always need to retain our self-worth and not get weakened by attacks of abuse. Love is the energy which takes us closest to God as love is a very high vibration of positivity. God is defined by love. It is presumed that God loves all beings as ONE. To be able to love ourselves and be happy again, we have to create feeling loved in our imagination. It is not necessary that we have a man or a woman in our mind. We first need to focus on the feeling of being loved and respected before we choose the person who fills our needs. As we keep focusing on the feelings of being desired and loved, a person would walk in our life who would respect us and love us in the way we desire. Energies multiply through focus. Hence, if our focus is positive, happiness will come in our life. During the process of visualization, we only need to focus on the internal feelings in our body and not be specific about who we are getting it from. As we keep taking in positive energies, we would start feeling happier even if there is no visible sign of a lover yet in our life. A lover who truly makes us feel loved and respected, can walk in only when we are positive within ourselves. It would take time for the negative energy within us to dissolve, which made us subconsciously manifest the betrayal, earlier. When the negative energy dissolves, we would no longer get attracted to people who are likely to hurt or abuse us. We would instead pull those people towards us who do make us feel loved. Sometimes, when there is no person available, it helps to focus on God as our partner. That does not mean that we are accepting being single. It only implies to our subconscious mind that we need a person who can make us feel as loved and respected, as we would if God was our lover. While we visualize pictures where we feel loved and happy with our partner as in a real film, we can use all our sense organs to make the experience intense. We can also activate our sexual orgasms and have sex with ourselves as we mentally imagine a partner. Sometimes, sex with self is far more fulfilling than with another person. We can imagine feeling loved by our imaginary partner often. Soul energy brightens if we can connect to God through sex, and raise soul vibrations to positive. Imagining sex with God in a spirt form or as an imagined person helps to become one with God and attain salvation. Health and positive energy rise by releasing breath into the light of a Higher Self , visualized above the body; and taking in energies from The Higher self. Sex is an automatic method of staying thoughtless but we have to exchange energies with a positive person or spirit to remain positive after sex. To activate chakra centres through sex, it helps to release orgasm by breathing up into the light of God, and releasing orgasm as an energy to merge with that higher life force. Instead of focusing on the sexual act, focus on God during the act of sex. Breathe in the energy released at the point of orgasm and exhale it out from the top of the head. Release this sexually charged breath by focusing on the crown chakra into a ball of light above the head. Then, inhale pure white/golden light into the body from the ball of light and imagine the energy spreading all over the body with cells lighting up through the whole body. Feel your feet filled with light. Feel your heart blossoming like a flower with petals spreading a slight opens in the centre. Receive the love of God and spread it all over your being. Thank God for the wonderful experience of love and feel the smile of satisfaction filling you up. This spirit sex experience will repeat on the physical plane if some person’s energy matches with that of the spirit. . It may be cautioned here that spirits can walk in, if we imagine sex with a non-physical partner. It is okay to have sex with a spirit and it might be a more positive experience than with a real person because the spirit would not come with a negative baggage. The spirit would most likely be a soul-mate or our own soul fragment which is attached to another’s energy and which is seeking love but is unable to reach, physically. However, any sexual act involves an energy exchange and if we have sex with a person who is negative as a soul, in real or in imagination, we are bound to feel negative by taking in his/her energy. Therefore, it is important to connect ourselves to positive energy by imagining bright white light falling on us from the sky so that we do not catch negative spirits in imagined sex. To have spirit sex, it helps to activate/imagine a flame in the center of our eyes .The energy of a flame of light inside our head would activate our psychic senses and open our third eye which would help us access energies beyond the physical dimension. We also need to connect the spirit who comes to us for sex with imagined light falling on him/her and filling his soul body. Imagined sex with self and a positive spirit, is better than sex with prostitutes. Since we take in energies from the person we have sex with, we feel negative or empty after sex with prostitutes or people who are callous, as their emptiness passes on to us. In case, you do have sex with prostitutes, use ENERGY CORD cutting after the act and send back their negative energies. Heal yourself after bad sex to feel loved and whole again. Though, the fear of abuse prevents us from trusting a new person, it is important to remain open to being in love and receiving love. We can use visualization to remove fear of abuse by the following steps: Removing fear of abuse • Close your eyes. • Be in a semi trance state. • Focus on your head and allow a white ball of light to come into you and cleanse you. • Feel the ball of light leaving with your negative energy stuck to it and dissolving in the sea. • Now, feel golden energy filling you up. • Focus on the feeling of being abused. • You can visualize it as a situation, a film or just as a ball of energy. • Use erasing memory methods to dilute the negative memories. Take out sound and visual effects from them. • Now, just view the feelings of being abused. • Pass light through the pictures coming to your mind. • As you pass light, you may get lessons of awareness. Inhale guidance as an energy form of a white paper from the sky in you. • You may realize that you do not have to put up with abuse just because the abusive people are stronger, manipulative or in authority. • We may also use energy current rotation method to reverse the energy of being abused. • We can also use Energy CORD cutting between us and the abusers to heal ourselves. Give back the energy of abuse and take back your positive spirit coming into you with wings and hope alive again. • Also, we can choose to energetically move away from them and put a glass wall in between so that their negative energy does not affect us. • Then, we can visualize the energy of abuse stored in our body as a stone or an animal or a black snake and ask it to go where it belongs. The animals may go in their natural habitat. If its an indigo soul, the black snake may go in the sea, release its blackness and turn blue, as it swims away. • We may also see the energy going into the sunlight and dissolving. • If the energy still remains, we can use a weapon of light as a CROSS or a TRISHUL, or a THUNDERBOLT OF LIGHTENING and throw it on the animal. The electric violet light will hit the demonic form in its third eye and disintegrate the form. • We need to visualize the demonic looking animal being electrocuted and/or sucked in a black hole. • We may also use energy rotation or energy cleansing methods to reverse the currents in ourselves so that we do not fear and thus, create abuse due to our negative expectations. By reversing the current, we would disintegrate the negative energy and rotate the energy in a positive energy circuit. • Replace the energy in the body with a bright light entering in its place and filling up the area. • Then, we need to again check our mind. See the situation getting repeated. It should be much lighter and hazy. • We need to keep passing light through the film in our Imagination till the memory dissolves. Installing Positive Memories/Future Visualization To maintain positive feelings, in place of that negative memory, we need to install memories where we feel respected and loved. • After we release negative memories by erasing them or using ENERGY CORD cutting, we need to immediately think of feeling loved in our imagination. We can recreate a past memory of being loved and respected; or we can create anew. • In this imagined visualization, we need to heighten the feelings of being loved. • We need to accept the energies of feeling loved in our body even if they appear unreal or miraculous. • We can also feel white light radiating from our stomach and our chest, as if we are receiving a brilliant glowing ball of light from the sky; and placing it inside our being. • We need to train ourselves to integrate the positive feelings and overpower any resistance from our body to throw them out. • Spread the positive energies like rays of light spreading all over your body. • Brighten the pictures of feeling loved and respected. Feel the hugs and the kisses. • Make the film as large as possible. If faces come to your mind, allow them to appear and if faces change, allow them to change. • Focus on the energy than on specific features. Do not be rigid in visualizations as you would block the universe to work freely. If you stay fixated on the physical features of a person and not his soul energy, you may make mistakes in judgment of the soul. But, by focusing on feelings, you would attract the person in your life who meets your soul requirements of evolution. Imagine a film when you can be with your lover with mutual love and respect and evolving together. Keep visualizing feeling loved before sleeping every night and SMILE with real feeling in your being. You may thank God that you are loved as soon as you get up every morning. Focusing on the positive feelings of being loved would slowly erase your negative dominant focus. Overtime, you would start feeling more fulfilled and happy just by creating these imaginations. Your health would improve as positive hormones would be created in your body. Also, you would feel closer to God as you allow yourself to believe that the world is a nice place to live in. excerpt from REDEFINING HAPPINESS - chapter 20 www.shivaswati.com