Thoughts carry energy. The person you keep thinking of takes all your life force energy .
If you keep thinking of your lover, your energy goes to him or her ,with or without his awareness . He often becomes much more successful than you are or more happy, glowing and publicly acclaimed as he is investing on himself .
Usually women traditionally are groomed to get married and service families in adulthood . However, suffering is of men also equally though in metaphysical manner .
Women feel that they give all their energy to their husbands or lovers and remain unsuccessful themselves in the hope that the man will pay up . But in today world, where equality is the norm, men want women to contribute to finances of the family and do not want to give money to the woman he marries.
As the woman gets drained out with unpaid housework and thinks more of him to rescue her , he becomes more distant . He may become more successful or popular . An inability to meet her expectations can make him lose interest in her . She may lose interest also as she is drained of energy .
Now, if she is not earning , and there are children , he has to pay her money which he did not earlier .
Money is usually paid with abuse psychically and the woman feels harassed with the money coming in without any love or respect as if she is worthless and cannot even earn for her children . The poverty of single women is the largest on the world ( World
If men desire financial freedom, the woman has to be encouraged to earn from the beginning and not expect to work only for love not for money . As love and money are like food and water . Each marriage partner will need both .
Homemakers should be given jobs whenever they can break free without counting gap years . If they have to stay at home and torn , domestic help should be invested on and work from home should be available so that the man does not have to pay her for herself and her needs for the children . Where they disagree , man has an easier chance of escape than the woman if there are children .
Men are willing to pay for their kids but not the mother . They expectthe mother to survive somehow and complain that she does not even earn for herself .
Women often cannot get salaries as high as men in a male chauvinistic world but they carry a larger responsibility of keeping kids happy while the man is expected to meet the financial demands of having kids.
It has been researched that the mother’s happiness is the most important contributor to the child being happy . Happiness requires gratitude, mindfulness and positive thinking training . However, training on how to be positive is not given from childhood . In fact , children are trained to work for marked or money in schools and not for free .
Unpaid , unhappy women become unhappy mothers and raise unhappy children who become unhappy adults that invest on wars, terrorism, domestic violence , poverty .
As men are equally harassed by needs of women , they have no idea how to share their income without abuse . Domestic abuse has to be minimised for peace . This leads to war mindsets where they try to unleash their frustration on the mass than on one as they feel unable to handle the emotional battles .
Training to manage emotions needs to be given from childhood not miraculously expected in adulthood .
Till energy is focused on financial independence and financial success of women , men can continue to feel slaughtered as they have to pay the woman .
The first step can start with the Woman focusing on their career from childhood than on the hope that a man will provide and giving all their thoughts to romance . This dependence causes misery in marriage when the money does not come in her hands while the man is shocked at the financial needs of the marriage partner .
The pews of one sided slavery either ways does not work . Each has to bloom financially with emotional bonding to complement success .
Focus on financial success of self by women is the beginning of financial freedom for men
The Global Reality
The poverty of single women is one of the highest in the world. World Bank data reveals the stark imbalance
Here lies the trap:
As a woman thinks more about him—emotionally and energetically—he gains strength and momentum. She, meanwhile, becomes drained, and often ends up discarded when her vitality runs low.
If children are involved and she isn’t earning, he may still have to pay her—through legal obligations. But that money often arrives wrapped in resentment, criticism, or abuse, making her feel worthless.
Overtime, the companionship can get boring or dissatisfying and each may crave for independence more than dependence . However, since the woman is dependent on finances or the man is dependent on finances , the togetherness cannot be broken in public unless one is ready to lose money , reputation , security and let go .
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