Why is Pain Kept Alive?: Principle 3 of The Subconscious Mind

Pain helps you realize your choices are not perfect
If there is imperfection, it’s an indication that the body & soul need attention
The body is like an engine of the car
if its sounding too loud, you need to stop and check what has gone wrong
Then make changes in thinking that make you feel you are in resonance
For the soul, mind and body need to resonate on the same tuning of emotionality
To align the vibrational frequency of actions, priorities & emotions desirability


(This blog is an excerpt from the updated version of the bpok EMOTIONAL ENERGY MANAGEMENT )

Whenever an unpleasant situation arises in your life, there is an emotional learning attached to it. The emotional learning entails the opposite feeling of what you don’t want i.e., it is about learning how to manifest what you do want with creating positive vibrations as a co-creator.
The subconscious mind keeps an unpleasant feeling alive till the situation is resolved at the subconscious level such that your positive frequency rises above it. The feeling of drowning in sadness is a negative frequency and is felt deeply till you learn how to swim in turbulent waters by understanding how to feel detached or float positively above the difficulties.
For example, if you feel impatient often, your lesson is patience. Situations, which cause you impatience keep arising till you learn your soul lesson.
In the process of learning your lesson, you work out modified ways to do things and thus, develop new and innovative ways of thinking. For example, aero planes were invented because people found road transport slow and were impatient to find better ways of transport.
So, a negative emotion is valuable because it leads to creation of positive changes in life, overtime.

The worth of an emotion is not measured by whether it feels pleasant or unpleasant but by the outcome it is intended to serve.

Learning Task 10- Experience the Need For Negative Feelings
Part A
Take a deep breath and exhale.
Calm your mind and relax for a few seconds.
Now, think of any situation which causes you stress or the need to feel negative. Which are the emotions involved? For example, you may feel irritation, impatience, helplessness, frustration, suppression, exhaustion, rejection etc. What are the negative impacts of these emotions on your life?

Part B
What are the positive impacts of these emotions? Why are you constantly indulging in them in spite of the stress you feel ? Are the gains greater than the losses? Check on empirical evidence. Does the negative feeling motivate you towards a positive outcome?
For example, does irritation motivate you to work on creating peace in your life? Does a fat body make you feel you are comfortable and can work extra, than with a thin body? Does your financial constraint make you indulge less in harmful addictive habits?
Does frustration motivate you to better organize your life? Does suppression create in you a need to express your inner truth? Does exhaustion motivate you to look after your health? Does rejection motivate you to love yourself more from within? Are you achieving the positive outcome by brooding about the negative feelings?

Part C
What does your life say through empirical evidence viz. the evidence you get from your circumstances? Is the outcome you are intending to achieve by the stress causing behavior being achieved? Are you slowly moving in the direction you desire or are you maintaining an optimal balance or are you moving backwards or away from the happiness you desire?

Part D
Focus: If the intention you are aiming at, is satisfied by your method of working, then you need to stop fighting with yourself and accept the situation as being designed for your highest good by your soul mind. Developing this vibration of being neutral towards a difficult situation is called SURRENDER to a higher consciousness in religious texts.
On the other hand, if the intention you aim at is not being satisfied by the outcome you are getting, then either you need to change your thinking or your method of working. The stress may be there because you are not happy with the outcome, or you are in a hurry to achieve something which takes more time. Remove the extra focus on the negative feelings so that the situation motivates you without destroying your inner peace.
For example, fire is needed to ignite a stove but burns food if used callously. Similarly, negative thinking is needed to ignite a positive desire but burns happiness, if indulged in randomly.




The mind is like a jungle if unkempt,
It grows weeds if left free to think
You run after money or fame meaninglessly or you drown in sorrow in un-measurable quantities
Before the body gets diseased & the soul depressed
Tune your mind to stay aligned to positivity in meaningfulness while making choices of how to live

Hypnotherapist is not a Tantrik- Bullying / beating is not used in hypnotherapy

Hypnotherapy is a logical process of accessing the subconscious mind for solving problems. The ways we do it is not mesmerism. It is a process of meditation but its technical not usual meditation. It takes regular practice, meditation, dedication , time and energy to be a good healer.


Chronic diseases, pains and problems arise from the release of negative hormones in the body by the subconscious mind that controls the mind, all the limbs and the organs of the body. It removes problems through cleansing the mind from thoughts of others , spirit release, past life therapy, age regression etc . Remote healing like Reiki or Theta healing also uses hypnotherapy as the therapist has to access the subconscious mind for healing .

it is not magic or tantrik work . It requires responsible participation from the client to self heal. IT cannot work by whipping or threatening spirits . Willingness of the client and ability to introspect, detach and meditate are assessed before accepting a client for remote healing or a direct healing session . If spirits are evil, God is called for help and electric violet flame is used for dissolving evil consciousness by taking permission and willingness of the client . Nothing is done if client is not aware or in sleep.

Hypnotherapy helps in accessing the subconscious mind while the person stays awake and in self-control, with the guidance of the therapist. The reasons for all problems can be traced to negative thinking patterns which began in the person’s present life, past life or childhood.
For example, asthma is caused if you have drowned or poisoned in a past life and your throat feels choked. The same problem occurs in present life whenever you feel that you are being suppressed and are not allowed a free voice or expression. Research has found that a disease develops in 7 years of negatively focusing upon a problem mentally.

Another example is diabetes which occurs when a person blames the self or feels bad about the self for seven years or more, Cancer occurs when the person feels angry and helpless about his circumstances for 7 years or more etc.
Through hypnotherapy, several people have been healed of chronic problems which had unknown causes but the cause could be traced back through a hypnotherapy session, which led to a cure along with using Reiki, NLP etc. Inner guidance comes from the subconscious mind on how to change thinking patterns and the energy of the pain area is healed with the help of Soul Energy healing methods that are activated by the person himself or herself during a session of hypnotherapy or self -hypnosis.

Hypnotherapy can be combined with medicines, physiotherapy, yoga , naturopathy treatment and self-meditation. All sessions lead top some mind development exercises which have to be practiced on the self after the session. Cure happens in 2 to 6 months and usually appears to be miraculous, but is based on a logical method of energy healing that is facilitated by hypnotherapy.





by
Dr. Shiva Swati, Cht., RMP (A.M)
Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist, Master NLP Practitioner, Theta Healer, Reiki Master, Life between Life Therapist, Past life Therapist, Pranik Healing Therapist, Spirit Release Therapist , Applied Behaviour Analyst, Psychotherapist.

THE PURPOSE OF LIFE

This chapter is an excerpt from the book IN SEARCH OF HAPPINESS


The life-plan encodes a purpose of life and all the circumstances are planned such that the soul has an opportunity to make choices in order to achieve its purpose of life. However, the life-plan is a map and the soul can choose between several roads to reach its destination. It is made at the level of feelings and encodes only energy movements, not the physical choices

The soul after incarnating does not remember that it has made a life-plan or has a life purpose as it seeks to learn by experience. It makes choices on the physical plane to find happiness but it can find happiness only when it chooses emotional experiences in alignment with what it plans to achieve as part of its soul evolution purpose. Positive feelings have to rise more than negative feelings on an average so that the energy of soul frequency becomes brighter in tune with its evolutionary goals.
If the soul becomes more negative than positive in pursuit of external gratification, it may lose its original positivity and weaken in health, optimism and creativity; as it loses positive energy connection with wires of the creator. By clogging of negative energies, the soul becomes insignificant as negative feelings start ruling the mind. Happiness reduces as the soul loses sight of the destination planned in the life-plan. Negative feelings devolve soul frequency and a focus on remaining sad, sick or compromised increases feeling of helplessness while reducing ability of co-creation.
The life-plan decides the circumstances, difficulties and challenges, the soul would encounter while seeking to realize its desires. If our soul makes the right choices while overcoming the negativities encountered, we would feel more positive with each new phase of life.
But if our levels of disease or depression increase, then it means that we are making the wrong choices as we are being unable to convert the negative energies into positive energies.

When we are unable to feel at peace, healthy or happy, we move away from the positive frequencies of the Creator instead of moving closer. We therefore, fail in our lessons of evolution. If we fail to overcome focusing on sadness consistently, we are unsuccessful in evolving to a higher positive soul frequency. Feeling sad or sick prevents us from achieving a positive vibration at the point of death. So, we die feeling unhappy and need to live another life for learning the same life lessons. The purpose of life is achieved only when the soul evolves to feeling happier, healthier and wiser as a co-creator.

The main life purpose is the primary emotional experience which the soul has to create to find happiness in its life. The primary life purpose entails several secondary purposes like learning to love, overcoming anger, developing compassion, learning to balance work and family, overcoming cruelty etc. Each purpose of life can be achieved only by mastering the soul lessons associated with it.

These soul lessons are like different subjects a student has to learn to pass a grade like English, history, science etc. to be able to go to a higher level class. The life-plan is made such that the soul keeps encountering instances where it has to apply its soul lessons.

For example, the soul may want to learn to master the lesson of patience in one life-time. Therefore, it would make a life-plan in which circumstances are created where she repeatedly encounters impatience and is forced to develop patience.

To illustrate - if learning patience is the main soul lesson chosen, then the soul’s main challenge would be to defeat impatience from making it feel negative or leave the path of happiness.

The life-plan would be made to ensure that the lesson of patience comes up in all aspects of his life. So, he may have interruptions in his career more than other people whose lesson is not patience. In his business, his work force may be difficult or his machines may break down often. Because of his plan of learning, he may have difficult kids as well who cause him delays. Additionally, he may meet the red light very often on the road while hurrying to make up for lost time. He may be born with a tendency of obesity so that he has to apply patience to exercise and slim down.

As a soul, he plans difficulties because he has to learn to apply patience. If everything was happening perfectly, there would not be any need to apply patience and he would not be able to learn this soul lesson. The person is forced to suffer the negative energy of impatience repeatedly till he masters it and transcends it to patience, an energy of a higher detached, positive frequency.

Detachment and patience are energies needed to be happy though running the rat race is more glorified as a route to success in today’s society, but material success only provides security to the body seeking shelter from rain or drought, not emotional contentment or happiness. If the person pursues the right actions with patience, his contentment would increase overtime but the person driven to pursue success blindly may become materially successful by pursuing money blindly wherein his sadness would rise and the soul’s purpose of incarnation would remain unfinished, as its spirit vibrations would lower. He would think of struggle often as a spirit trapped in a helpless animal’s consciousness and he would hence, become negative in soul frequency as a helpless animal frequency is automatically lower compared to human frequency .
An impatient person would feel more lost than happy, not feel respected and would not be able to create positive energy with his success, for himself or others. His anxieties and disease would increase by sacrificing his positivity such that he would wait for death as a solution to his problems. However, death will not release the energies of impatience automatically and they would continue to the next life. It is only when the person learns detachment by choice, that his anxiety would dissolute in energy. By acquiring patience, he would he be able to achieve his goals and feel respected from within.

But, the negative energy of impatience is not easy to master. It would keep pulling the person’s mind in the opposite direction, and make him act against the soul plan. In this process of a tussle between the negative and the positive, this person may become impatient and choose short-cuts to success and power. Thus, he may start using wrong means of making money, exploit his work-force, become a criminal, and even abusive towards his children.
By choosing actions which create negative energy, the soul would create negative karma for itself. To find happiness, it would have to pay a karmic debt to the souls it harms in order to neutralize the negative energy it created.

God represents uplifted Consciousness not a Warlord

In the rat race to succeed, happiness is usually left far behind as we
choose to be like rats running after cheese than peace, forgetting
that we have evolved above being just animals.
As long as we stay limited to thinking that buying external objects
of comfort and security would ensure our happiness, we would
somewhere fail to evolve above our animal ancestors who were
purely focused on the external gratification of their bodily needs.
Due to the empirical evidence available, we can’t blindly follow the
methods of pursuing happiness which have been founded by our
ancestors, because our history does not prove that humanity has led
an emotionally successful existence. Instead of finding peace, health
or happiness, with our comfort levels rising on the physical plane;
our levels of stress, tension, loneliness, diseases and depressions
have risen, over the centuries.
It may seem daunting to change our conventional methods of
thinking. Yet, the established route of finding happiness, focuses
more on the negative, than on the positive, aspects of life. But, this
focus on the negative aspect of life, i.e., on what is missing in
comparison with another, virtually, reverses the process of reaching
happiness, individually, or as a whole.
A shift of basic thinking towards focusing more on the positive
aspects of life, than the negative, becomes necessary to reverse the
damage on human thought which a war torn history, has already
caused.
Human thought is influenced by habit and tradition. If we focus on
the energy or feelings underlying our thoughts, we would realize
that we have been thinking the same way over centuries , and
repeatedly manifesting the same emotional experiences, though the
external form of our world has changed.
Thus, swords were replaced by guns and horses by motorbikes but
the underlying intentions still remain the same.
Our traditional role models have been war heroes who killed others
to survive themselves. It may be noted here that on a practical
plane, our role models are not our Gods. That is because we
worship Gods but we do not try to be them.



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The Voice of the Soul

<“I, as a soul in a human body, realize that I exist in an infinite realm
of timelessness. It is only the finite human body, which is limited
by zones of time, but the energy, me, the soul within, remains
eternally.
There is no limit to the number of human bodies, which I, as a
soul, can choose to inhabit.
The war of energies is between Love and Fear…
I understand that the whole process of evolution is that of
mastering consciousness so that I can Love more than Fear.
There is no emotion, be it fear, anger, or happiness, which cannot
be mastered because they are only expressions of thought forms,
which can be transformed into Light.
If negative energy exists, in my life, in the NOW, there is no reason
why it cannot be transformed into positive, if I but choose to focus
my energy on it, with awareness of what I am creating.
There is no sin, which cannot be forgiven, if I but choose to learn
from it.
The Choice to be happy or not to be happy IS MINE, and I have
the FREE WILL to choose how to be happy, by learning the Laws
of the Universe.
I AM, HAVE BEEN, AND WILL BE…
I take the responsibility to create and I realize that what is created is
but a manifestation of my consciousness.
When I create with conscious awareness of my power as the
creator, I know that the World I live in is a WORLD of MY choice,as a part of the Oneness

(from the book Creation of Happiness :The Energy War, a soul 's perspective)

Every drop in the ocean is a path of the oneness of the ocean

Happiness Flows From The Subconscious Mind

Happiness is a subconscious vibration created by a focus on the positive aspects of life. Vibrationally, a positive focus multiplies positive energies over a period of time.
Programming of the subconscious mind happens in moments of deep emotional distress or through conditioned values & beliefs imbibed through popular culture or childhood. (Past lives and spirit attachments also play an important role in healing subconscious programs but these subjects are beyond the scope of this book.)
If the subconscious mind is programmed to focus on the sad aspects of life, you would not be able to feel happy. Your health will also worsen, overtime, as the internal balance of positive and negative hormones in the body would be tilted towards the negative.
Your general established pattern of working, and your belief or disbelief in your own abilities, affects your ability to receive information and process it to manifest positive or negative health vibrations, at each moment of your life.

Energy flows in your body in automated circuits which run in tune with an internal song. In other words, your mind repeats the same feelings as a tune of words over and over again. Your emotional frequency is determined by this fixed mind-set and you keep feeling the same way, repetitively even when your external life changes its course; till you can redirect the automated energy flow in your body through changing your mind-set tuning frequency.
For example, deprivation is a common traditionally conditioned mind program. We are programmed to feel deprived by our parents or teachers or peers from childhood, by a general mass conditioned mind training which insists that focus remains on the missing aspects of life. e.g., my grandmother and mother felt that money was always short in our childhood. That same song kept playing in my ears throughout adult life and I kept feeling money is short whether I lived in India or abroad, was unmarried, married or divorced, went to school, college or worked, had children or taught children, watched television or attended workshops for self-healing. The same background tune created all my life experiences such that money remained short even when earnings improved because expenses rose simultaneously. It took me years to understand that this tune was subconsciously governing my internal feelings and my choices of response.

Happiness is determined by feelings which are the body’s internal response to external situations. You feel sad if you are used to feeling sad in a given situation even if there is no need of feeling sad given the change in context over life. For example, if a child is slapped by an adult, he would feel sad as he is be-littled and too small to respond. But, if an adult is slapped by another adult, the adult does not need to feel suppressed by physical abuse. The automatic internal response of feeling suppressed by a slap or verbal abuse can be redirected to a more self-empowering, rational response with awareness.

For example, with self-confidence, the adult can walk away in anger by assuming that the abuser is a devolved soul or ignore the abuser as a negative, irrelevant entity or slap back to revert back energy exchange or give advice on being peaceful or meditate in a positive vibration when alone, to transmute the negative energy received into positive. (Meditation neutralizes negative energy inside you such that your own frequency rises and you move away from people who make you sad by choosing detachment, automatically.)

But, due to an automated energy circuit in the emotional mind, you are not aware of the changing external environment within your subconscious mind. The subconscious mind only records energy changes and cannot distinguish between past, present and future. The child’s reality remains the same for the subconscious mind unless the adult reprograms himself/herself with the awareness that time has elapsed and s/he is no longer a child, but an adult who is as mentally as big as or bigger than the negative, abusive person.

Your subconscious mind takes its external scenario as the same until it is programmed through self-awareness that the context has changed and it can stop feeling sad in a situation where it felt sad earlier. This carry over particularly happens when a part of your soul gets stuck/frozen as a soul fragment at a point in time, amidst the subconscious energies, due to a moment of intense emotional trauma felt in childhood. If self - awareness does not produce the desired empowerment, it helps to access the densely entangled negative internal energies through self-healing processes like Inner Child Healing, Spirit Release etc. These energy healing processes work quickly in a systematic manner to free the frozen or fearful childhood soul fragments and integrate them back with the adult soul. The process removes irrational insecurities from the mind along with learning of some soul lessons of emotional management.

For further reading, please refer to the book EMOTIONAL ENERGY MANAGEMENT .

To Maximize Happiness. Minimize Connected Stress

Stress is a negative energy. Happiness is a positive energy. When we take action in the physical world, we combine stress with happiness. The joy we get from doing any work is its happiness component. The discomfort we undertake while performing the work is its stress component.
Any activity requires both happiness and stress component in the physical world. There can be no work done if we totally focus on happiness or bliss as that is a spirit dimension of existence.
Earth is a physical dimension where negative and positive energies interact to form physical matter. The celestial dimensions are spirit dimensions where positive energy predominates matter. Positive ions are more spread out than negative ions. To form physical matter, air has to turn into solid. Likewise, spirit has to conform to a body. Body is physical matter. Spirit is like air. The spirit has to lower its positive frequency to come in physical body.
While staying in physical body alive, the spirit cannot be as positive as it would be in celestial dimension because physical body is dense. Density requires atoms and molecules to move close to each other which requires magnetism. Magnetism is created by negative thought.
We cannot be completely free of negative thought while staying alive in a body. If we want to be free of negative feelings totally, we have to evolve to being content in a spirit body which stays in high frequency, spirit dimensions where movement of ions is freer and more spaced out.
As the spirit, we do not need food, clothes or cars. Hence, if we want to be like spirits and in complete bliss, we have to also give up desire for physical comforts like saints do.
The job we do, be it drinking water or manufacturing films, creates feelings in us. We feel content and satisfied after drinking water or making a film. The contentment level rises or falls but the feeling essentially remains the same. The energy of contentment varies and makes the experience different for the soul.
If the level if positive contentment is greater than the discomfort endured in doing it, the action leads to creation of happiness. If the discomfort is greater than the joy produced while doing the act, the stress level increases.
We have to ensure that the JOY component of the work being done always remains higher than the DISCOMFORT component for the activity to yield happiness in our lives.
If we allow negative energy of stress to become greater than the positive energy of contentment/happiness, we would lose satisfaction with our own selves and devolve as souls.
Soul evolution means to be happy more than stressed. Stress cannot be avoided but has to be kept minimum even if material comforts are sacrificed in the process. Freedom is in rising to the spirit zones of existence with feeling contentment in heart.
Our health and peace rise when we feel greater joy than stress while doing any job. Our anxiety levels rise and diseases increase if we allow stress to increase and happiness to fall while doing the job. A balance between negative and positive has to be maintained such than positive feeling is on an average, greater than negative feelings but negative can’t be eradicated on Earth as we need magnetism to stay alive.
Hence, this course is meant to help you access methods by which you can minimize stress and maximize your joy which choosing any action. The course intends to provide a balance between desires of materialism and needs of soul ascension by integrating spirituality with psychology.

Excerpt from the book A COURSE IN EMOTIONAL MANAGEMENT , version 3




Happiness and Health rise by increasing positive power of the Soul by understanding its voices,
The Soul communicates its unrest through the subconscious mind’s personalities,
Positive frequency of the Soul needs to be accentuated by skill and practice,
Creating Happiness is as skilled an effort as swimming in deep waters is